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Realistic blueprint to Get You Started or back on track

Make it simple and realistic

I often took too long to get started on projects because I had grand visions that seemed achievable only through great accomplishments. However, I realized that my successes stemmed from taking simple steps grounded in realistic habits.

Recently, I found myself procrastinating on this newsletter. My business has been growing, thanks to the consistent habits I’ve established. Naturally, I prioritized my mentees because mentoring is what I love to do. Yet, in focusing on the immediate rewards from my mentee sessions, I neglected tasks that didn't offer instant gratification.

Keep it simple. Remove the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.

Hans Hofmann

After thoughtful reflection, I recognized that my daily schedule had become unrealistic and was making me procrastinate. With fewer commitments in the past, I had the flexibility to make last-minute changes while still producing content for you. This flexibility is no longer feasible and I was just adding too much complexity to what I needed to do.

Realistic Plans

Unrealistic Plans

Read twice a week.

Read a book per week

Do a cheat meal per week

Never cheat on a meal

Go out once a week for dinner

Don’t go out for dinner

Play with your kids once a week

Play with your kids every day

Spend 1 hour per day on social media

Uninstall social media

What seems realistic and unrealistic depends on individual but you get the point. You need to make time for things that matter to you, but don’t get caught up in specific goals. Instead, work on blocks to ensure you make time for what matters.

To regain control, I simplified my approach:

  1. Product Development - Constant learning and production form the core of my business. This is how I keep sharpening the axe.

  2. Digital Marketing - Sharing the content of my practices with a wider audience.

  3. Sales & Feedback - Engaging with my audience to receive feedback and attract individuals interested in personal empowerment through my experiences.

  4. Mentoring - Working with people to implement the methods I’m developing.

This structure gives me 35 hours a week to do what I like, in a way that feels right for me. You are not a machine—give yourself autonomy, recognize your efforts, and enable your own growth.

Outside of these blocks, I allow myself to enjoy time with family and friends, get adequate sleep, stay active, and play.

The key is to keep things simple. Create daily blocks for each activity and set clear intentions. It’s okay if you’re unsure of every detail—embrace some uncertainty. Start with what feels right and maintain consistency.

  • Keep upskilling.

  • Be helpful.

  • Make yourself useful.

  • Give yourself time for self-care.

  • Foster meaningful personal connections.

  • Embrace both certainty and uncertainty to live fully.

By simplifying and structuring your approach, you can achieve great things without feeling overwhelmed. Focus on building habits rather than getting caught up in specific goals, and measure your progress regularly.

If you want more information and resources to navigate your career and life, you can check my website.

And if you’re ready to dive deeper and make lasting, effective changes, let’s start with an informal chat. You can reach out to me here.